Fir the first time mom I have 2 pieces of advice(mom of 5 humans) 1: lower the bar, just all round, lower the bar of expectation.. 2. There is no never and there is no always,only what works in the moment. E g I will never let my child watch a tablet while out for dinner..spoiler alert..you will do whatever the f it takes to keep your child occupied while you horse said dinner into your mouth while it is somewhat warm..😘best of luck!!
For the first time mom (I had my first 3 years ago), I’m sure people have told you how exhausting and all consuming it will be, but you won’t be able to comprehend it fully until you actually experience it. It’s the biggest culture shock you will ever go through. My advice is don’t expect to do anything for the first few days/weeks except keep yourself and baby alive, fed, clean, etc. You will not have the time or energy to clean, cook and all of that. Leave it to someone else (if the house is a mess, then so be it). If you even get dressed that day, consider it an achievement. I wish I had realised that when I had mine - I was way too hard on myself in the first few days and my expectations were way too high for what I would be able to get done. Take it easy and enjoy xx
Interesting that you answered as though the person posing the phone sex question was not the person engaging in the phone sex?! I automatically assumed they were...
Fir the first time mom I have 2 pieces of advice(mom of 5 humans) 1: lower the bar, just all round, lower the bar of expectation.. 2. There is no never and there is no always,only what works in the moment. E g I will never let my child watch a tablet while out for dinner..spoiler alert..you will do whatever the f it takes to keep your child occupied while you horse said dinner into your mouth while it is somewhat warm..😘best of luck!!
For the first time mom (I had my first 3 years ago), I’m sure people have told you how exhausting and all consuming it will be, but you won’t be able to comprehend it fully until you actually experience it. It’s the biggest culture shock you will ever go through. My advice is don’t expect to do anything for the first few days/weeks except keep yourself and baby alive, fed, clean, etc. You will not have the time or energy to clean, cook and all of that. Leave it to someone else (if the house is a mess, then so be it). If you even get dressed that day, consider it an achievement. I wish I had realised that when I had mine - I was way too hard on myself in the first few days and my expectations were way too high for what I would be able to get done. Take it easy and enjoy xx
Interesting that you answered as though the person posing the phone sex question was not the person engaging in the phone sex?! I automatically assumed they were...